I`ll put this in english, you might want your
lawyer to read this, and I hope your english is better
than your dutch. I didn`t understand much of your
message. I hope your lawyer is someone with integrity
and a quick understanding of things, and I hope he
charges you a lot, I would find it a hell of a job
representing someone with an evil character as you have.
After you brought C. and the kids to the
airport for the last time, you charged her with
abduction. Probably your first lawyer filed the `Motion
Without Notice`, so C. would`t know. But it was you, R.,
that set the trap. A terrible lie. You knew exactly what
was going on, you thriumphantly told H., we have all the
evidence and enough witnesses. Even your own laywer, Ms.
Chanteal Oshowy, doesn`t believe you, she told me. But
you hold the cards and played them out. Pity our
evidence was all turned down by the courts in Holland
because of the `The Hague Convention`, on
child-abduction, which it is not, but that`s what you
claim. Here they followed the first Canadian ruling.
That you started.
With your second big lie: "I had no idea there
was anything wrong with my marriage until she called".
You are not that stupid. Now your wife is a Canadian
criminal, your children are against their will with you.
After 18 months in Canada, you forcefully bring your
children back there, where they have nothing and no-one
but you. And we all know how much you are prepared to
invest love, time, and just plain interest in them. Q.
spend 7 years of his life in Holland, and you want him
to adapt now? He already had learning problems, caused
by your selfish behaviour.
You still have done nothing to secure C.`s
rights, what`s the plan this time? Put her in jail for
abduction? Put her in a mental hospital for
`instability`, another of your lies? H. also saw you in
person brag and boast about a disgusting
chat-session-log you made, and intended to frame C. with
this. That is the lowest. What is this good for? C. has
done you no wrong, she went to Canada with you because
of her love for you, with hope her marriage and you
would turn out for the better. It didn`t. Is this your
reward? I wonder if you had ever wondered before about
`running the house and children`. Would be hard for you
to make breakfast, lunch, dinner, clean up everybody`s
mess, pay the bills, put out the garbage, go out with
your children more than once in a lifetime, be
supportive, loving, help with Q.`s homework, be patient,
not selfish... Is this the punishment they deserve, you
You just can`t stand losing, do you, had to
take revenge. For what? Not being able to love you
anymore? Not being able to bear after all these years?
Have you any idea what a selfish bastard you are? And
have been, not only to Claudia, and your children, but
also to us, your family and your friends? For the past
thirteen years I know you and hear people speak of you?
I knew from the first moment I met you there was
something wrong with you. You cannot communicate but of
yourself. Real communication requires two-way
connections, listening and thinking about it, for
example. C. can`t talk of emotions either, I don`t think
you really deeply talked to eachother about your
problems. You grinding your own selfish way and C.
loading it all on her big back, just carrying on like
nothing happened and with hope for the better. Sadly you
turned evil, spying on her, trying rediculous
punishments on the children. And still you did nothing.
And I knew you also as a friendly, whitty,
competitive sports- and craftsman. I thought you were an
honourable man. But there is no honour in what you have
done, just evil. You have done so much pain, and so much
grief, it`s hard to express. With your lies you ripped
our lives apart. Your family, Henk, Rianne, Hans, Jet,
me and especially Robine, who was once your friend, with
whom you still talk on the phone. Amazing. Everyday I
look in her eyes and see the grief of her loss of her
two special friends, Q. and C. You caused it, R., no-one
else. And still it is not too late. Send the children
back to C. If you don`t, they will probably never
forgive you. Show me you have some heart and honour
left. You won, you broke everybody`s back. Now it`s time
to set the record straight. If you have the guts to pick
up your own life and not charging C. for a lot of money.
That`s really miserable.
This is my extra-special disclaimer to you, R.:
I know of all the facts told here to be true and
confirmed, on paper or by persons whom i trust, I do not
intend to slander or smear you or mislead anyone, I want
the full true story as I know it be told to everyone as
to obtain another, personal view (mine) on the
situation, I will committ myself to this as long as you
keep your wife and children in this terrible ordeal. I
have nothing to do with any article in any paper that
has not my name under it, I do not consult C. about my
own actions. I beg you on my virtual knees to stop this
punishment, and start your own new life. This is a very